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Does Your Family Or Friends Treet You Different Because You Suffer From A Mental Illness?
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I found out by accident that my sister is dying from cancer. I was kept in the dark because my family believed I couldn't handle it. I know that this is because of my depression. I was wondering if any of you have had similar experiences? Or has your family or friends treated you differently because of your illnesses? If so, how what did you do about it?

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Ray, I am totally an extrovert, so I thrive on being around others. I am glad you have your job and kids. 😊

Why Do So Many People Say They Have Tried To Kill Themselves So Many Times? I Know It May Sound Ignorant But How Can One Fail So Many Times?
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When they say they've tried 12 times and they aren't much older than that in years it's just weird. Don't get me wrong, suicide is awful and tragic but some people trivialize it by saying things like that. I'm sorry if I offended anyone in advance because I know I have.

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Very few people actually want to die. They just cannot continue living the way they have. I guess they see no other alternatives. There are alternatives, though. I have often thought about the therapy… read more

Has Anybody Made Mistakes You're Not Proud Of Because Of Your Illness?
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Overspending, bouncing checks, doing things you know you shouldn't do, drinking, drugs, and the list goes on.

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When I was in my 30’s and 40’s, I had unprotected sex with men, used cocaine like crazy, was a weekend warrior with the alcohol, and hit the bars during the work week. Now that I’m 55, I haven’t had… read more

Depression, Family And Stigma
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Do your family members know about your depression, and are they supportive?
Do you find that you have to hide your status in fear of being labelled a "crazy person?"

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Some things just shouldn’t be in the light some can’t handle it

Have You Ever Been Ashamed Of What You Are Or Ashamed Of Living With Depression (Anxiety)?
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As for me yes, this is why I had my Feelings & don't open up to anyone, was afraid of what others may say or 🤔 living or dealing with Mental Illness

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Absolutely it's not our place to judge anyone...

Trust?
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Has anyone ever gotten close to someone/people/anyone, thought you could trust them,etc. only to have them betray you, pass you off on someone else and abandon you when times got too hard in their eyes even if they promised to be there and your friend no matter what, in the past?

Do you have trouble letting people get close to you, now?

Do people have to jump through hoops to earn your trust?

Do you have a hard time trusting people and making friends now, because of that?

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Yes

Is Anyone Uncompassionate With Self But Very Compassionate With Others?
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Developing Self-Compassion: How to Show Yourself Some Love Read Article...
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Yes, I am very hard on myself as far as criticizing my efforts but I am somewhat hard on everyone else in my mind too if substandard job/work is done by others.

'happiness Is A Choice'🙄
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I'm not trying to offend anyone but seeing this right now makes me want to cry
Honestly? I wonder if the people that say or think this has ever really been depressed like sobbing on your knees praying to God to make the pain stop, the suicidal thoughts day in and day out!!if I could I would happily choose to be happy but I can't! Why am I so screwed up I can't just make it that easy? That I could just take some time outside and be happy and carefree not gave these endless anxious thoughts… read more

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agree 100%!! on those days, i wanna just go dig a hole and hide!

How Do You Find Love Again, When You Have Been Depressed For So Long?
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Background info: I've been depressed for over 25 years, was married, and had 2kids. I have been alone for over 16 years now, and can't believe that someone would even want to be with me. For all my shortcomings, depression and lack of self esteem. My kids mean the world to me, but they are older now and moving on with their own lives. I'm scared, terrified and afraid to even want to get close to someone male. I don't want just sex, i want a relationship. One that isn't one sided, on my… read more

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How do you manage yourself it already feels like 2 ppl,im me and me depressed

How Do You Deal With Bad Friends Without Making It Worse?
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If you have a friend that's not so great. They may hurt you or cause drama. They may use you or treat you badly. How do you deal with them without making it worse? Without them getting make and hurting you even more. Without making an enemy of them?

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I have a bestfriend from 8th grade, we get along great when she is sober. when the vodka hits, I'm out. She has General anxiey and ocd, I can deal with that with ease but its so sad to watch someone… read more