I totally agree with Violet....I refuse to be surrounded by anyone that isn't good for me. That has narrowed down my true friends to about three but that is okay with me. It is better to have a couple of good friends than anyone that causes drama or makes you feel worse about yourself of your situation.

I have a bestfriend from 8th grade, we get along great when she is sober. when the vodka hits, I'm out. She has General anxiey and ocd, I can deal with that with ease but its so sad to watch someone you love dearly. Distroy herself by drinking and engaging in destructive male relationships. I tried but know I just pray to Jesus

I found it nearly impossible to give certain pple the heave ho. But it seems the older I get the more cantankerous I haf become lol. I refuse to surround myself with idiots. I haf been abused by them one way or another and now I will not tolerate them. I tell them they r no longer invited. Sum haf tantrums but I leave them to their rantings. Better if u let them know away from home. If they don't leave u alone them let pple know. Do not ker0 it too urself. U will need support of course.