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Oklahoma City, OK

I have social anxiety and I try to be happy helpful person I don't like being in anyone else business I don't want to be the center of attention that makes me really nervous and bring my anxiety out and I respect people as I want to be respected by them but not everyone likes everyone I stay to myself most times

7 days ago
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It sounds like you put a lot of energy into being kind and respectful, which says a lot about your character. Dealing with people who still cause stress despite your best efforts is genuinely exhausting, especially when you already prefer to keep to yourself.

Here are some things that may help manage that outside stress:

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It sounds like you put a lot of energy into being kind and respectful, which says a lot about your character. Dealing with people who still cause stress despite your best efforts is genuinely exhausting, especially when you already prefer to keep to yourself.

Here are some things that may help manage that outside stress:

- Set boundaries quietly — you don't owe anyone an explanation for protecting your peace
- Limit social media if outside drama tends to find you there; turning off notifications can help a lot
- Practice simple breathing exercises when anxiety spikes — even just a few slow, deep breaths can help ground you in the moment
- Journal your feelings — getting thoughts out of your head and onto paper can release tension without involving anyone else
- Lean on a small, trusted circle — even one or two understanding people can make a big difference As one MyDepressionTeam member put it, choosing not to let others darken your day is something that takes time to build, but it is absolutely possible. Not everyone will like everyone — and that's truly okay. Your happiness doesn't have to depend on their approval.

7 days ago
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Hi Sherry, I deal with that kind of stress by coming here to MDT and by trying to deal positively with my friends here such as yourself!! . . My best peace, love, and good vibes to you!! . . Sam . .

6 days ago (edited)

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