I speak for those of us male partners and spouses who really try to be "the perfect guy," but it's an unrealistic expectation. In other words, the "perfect guy" doesn't actually exist; it's a construct of the mind that creates what you think would fill your desires for the rest of your days together. You can certainly "feel" perfect together, but I promise you, married life can have its tests of fortitude and moral grappling, questioning your life choices and living unhappily or in fear of retribution.

As for the money, the happiness it buys is fleeting and unsatisfying.

the cash. The guy, nawww...

True, yet, $$$ Money 💵 doesn't = happiness, 😁 yet you can get a lot 🏡 🛩️or 🐕 donate 🐶 a lot with that kind of money $$$
BUT, At the same time there is no guarantee that a man 🧍🏼‍♂️ will fulfill your world 🌏and make you feel like a princess 👸🏽 or whatever your real heart 💘 desires. 😍

The guy….. well…. Yeah the guy definitely!! Money doesn’t always buy happiness

Money, 30 million will take you a long way. Will buy a house, car, clothes..pay your bills.

I would choose the guy, money is only temporary & even 30 million dollars won't last, but a guy would last forever depending on the healthy leavel of the relationship.