"BBW" means, "Big, Beautiful, Woman"

And personally, I would choose the one I was comfortable with, felt safe being myself with, and fall madly and irreveribly in love with...she's on the couch next to me. A beautiful woman of moderate size, but always had an amazing figure.

EDIT AND APOLOGIES!!!: I don't know what possessed me to say what I did to upset @A MyDepressionTeam Member, but if I have offended or upset him or any of us, please know that I am deeply sorry for my grievous mistake. I can't even remember what was going through my mind at the time, and I know that's no excuse..

I am very sorry, my friends...

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John, please forgive me if I have caused you any offense or reason to be cautious; I was going solely on what I'd heard that acronym called, not to cause any unrest. My statement of "kinda shallow" was totally uncalled for and I will edit it with an apology to all.

It's not like I'm new to this, by any stretch of the imagination, but there are some social mores I'm still learning about and, as Hamlet said to Laertes before the sword fight began:

"I have shot mine arrow over the house, and hurt my brother..."

From time to time I think of these questions among many. Let me back up and say I wouldn't change anything i've done since it necessarily would likely blot out the children I have. I can't abide that thought so changing what i would have done in the past, studied, tried to do for fun, interest, etc are rather disturbing to me. Still, its a fair question. I don't' know what Bbw means. I'm rather a dolt with common acronyms. I could have a priority list of traits. I don't watch it but the Bachelor/ette got me thinking about such issues. I think the show is silly but honestly thinking about what you value in people is not silly. Since I don't know what Bbw stands for I'm sort of lost. I can say, that someone that wants to take care of themselves is idea. This way they do not become a premature death, a casualty of health concerns or limited in life due to self inflicted health decisions. Extreme desire for fitness has its own perils.

Here, we are discussing, presumably, two extremes. A bi-polar world in a different sense. I think that is an unproductive way to look at it. One shouldnt have to choose from extreme but look for equilibrium. An extreme, especially in this case, would rule out happiness since, to my way of thinking, extremities don't permit happiness, only imbalance and a certain obsessive quality of the mind. Woe be to the one that interferes.

I would have to see their eyes, I know sounds silly