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Are You Afraid To Say No?

Posted on May 01, 2019

Yes. No. I mean – maybe? Well, okay. Have you ever wanted to be able to say "no" without feeling guilty? Without feeling you're letting someone down? Many of us struggle with disappointing anyone with a 'no.' At the same time, those two letters, n-o, can be freeing.

If you’re managing depression, the ability to say no is a powerful skill that can ultimately give you the gifts of time and energy to dedicate to your health. By trading off doing something you truly don’t have the time to do, you can give yourself more breathing room to stay on top of appointments, treatments, and general self-care. It becomes easier to say “no” with practice.

There are a variety of ways to say no and set boundaries with friends and family with no hard feelings. How do you say “no” to others? Are you direct? Do you provide rain checks?

Here are some conversations about this topic from the community:

“I'm scared to put myself first.”

“It helps you to know what are good healthy boundaries with yourself and others.” 

“I just know right now I need a break from her!” 

When has saying no been a form of self-care for you?
Share in the comments below or post on MyDepressionTeam.

A MyDepressionTeam Member said:

i have a hard time saying no to but i to am learning to say no and have boundaries this is how we will feel better about our selves and being able to… read more

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