For example- My mom is using me, She says things like. O your peer support is your girlfriend. Or my Dad says things about the religion I was in. Like- would you do this and judges me when I do something.
Growing up my step dad was hard on me.Fled me the prince not in a nice way. He did this because I was quiet and kept to my self. I was called a name that in Spanish means a person that just sits there and is helpless. This is. Man that was trying to touch end beat my mother. My mother was always saying that I had the music inside.I always believed that and carried it into my adulthood
I'm sorry your going thru this my mom is the same way she refers to them ad the other people, lije most people she does not understand me or how I feel.. Those so called other people are my best friends. You hang in there, Don
Sorry about my spelling, I using a tablet.
My mother used to do things like say something mean or shocking, and then she'd laugh and say "I just wanted to see the expression on your face!"
(I do not have a poker face, I have a very honest face).
I'm not sure what happened, I think I said something back to her, because it stopped. Of course, I moved three time zones away, so we rarely see each other.
My dad has been like that in the past. He's a bit more understanding now.