Absolutely not selfish. I think people sometime make us feel that way when they are being selfish. Plus of you suffer with self loathing. You need to take care of yourself too. Burn out is real and we all deserve grace and time.

I am a caretaker my whole life also a people pleaser big time. I think 🤔 now is my time for Self Care. Im all I have right now. And No is a complete sentence.

I lived that life for 61 years...no one has never helped me....I am looking out for myself. My kids dont help me either. I am over it

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