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May 28
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A MyDepressionTeam Member

When someone says to me, “I need help with my depression,” the first thing I want them to know is this: don’t try to carry it alone. You need help and I am so glad you have asked.

Depression is a liar. It tells us nothing will help, that we’re a burden, and that things will never get better. None of those things are true. Not one of them!

You need to start small. Really small. Try drinking a glass of water. Taking a shower. Stepping outside for five minutes. Text one trusted person it doesn’t have to be me and tell them you’re struggling. Small steps count when you’re climbing a mountain and you can do it.

Please, please reach out to a doctor, therapist, pastor, trusted friend, or crisis line if you’re in danger! Asking for help isn’t weakness—it’s courage!

Some days surviving depression looks less like conquering the world and more like keeping yourself fed, hydrated, and alive. That’s not failure; that’s winning today’s battle.

And if all you accomplished today was getting out of bed and keeping your heart beating, congratulations—you’ve already done something depression hoped you wouldn’t.

Remember there are people who care and will step up to listen and help if they know.

I hope this helps.

Pam

May 28
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Take 1 day at a time. They won't all be bad. Be thankful for the good ones. See your therapist often and take your medicine and ask God to help you

May 28
MyDepressionTeam

Reaching out and saying "I need help" is genuinely one of the bravest and most important steps anyone can take. Here are some real, practical ways to start surviving — and eventually thriving — with depression.

Start small and build support
- Talk to a trusted friend or family member and let them know you need support
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Reaching out and saying "I need help" is genuinely one of the bravest and most important steps anyone can take. Here are some real, practical ways to start surviving — and eventually thriving — with depression.

Start small and build support:
- Talk to a trusted friend or family member and let them know you need support
- Ask someone to check in with you regularly via text or phone call
- Schedule short walks with a loved one for fresh air and connection
- Reach out to a doctor or mental health provider to discuss treatment options

Take care of the basics:
- Take any prescribed medications consistently, even when you start feeling better
- Prioritize sleep — low energy is a symptom, not a character flaw
- Try to maintain a healthy diet where possible

Be kind to yourself:
- When negative self-talk creeps in, ask "What would I say to a friend in this situation?"
- Remind yourself that bad days don't define you

As one MyDepressionTeam member put it, *"Just think of one thing you have to do for yourself and do it!"*

If things ever feel overwhelming or you're in crisis, please reach out immediately by calling or texting 988 in the U.S. for support. You are absolutely not alone in this. 💙

May 28
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Which is why God is the answer,He made ,He loves us,He has a plan for us even in these bad times.Thank you Heavenly Father for Everything and Everyone, in Jesus name, Amen 🙏 ❤️ 😇

May 29
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Its hard to not feel alone when your christian friends say we dont want to hear about your struggles . 8 love you butt thats alot I feel so much in the corner looking in on life! Today is so so just sitting hear thinking who am I today!!!!

May 29

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