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My husband and I have been together since 1997 and his drug addiction has gotten worse. My in-laws are in denial that he has a drug problem and they hold money and power over me. I need a trustworthy attorney to give me advice on how to not lose the house or my cats in case of separation or divorce. It's become clear to me that divorce is a definite possibility unless he gets help and stops abusing drugs immediately.

July 13, 2025
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When seeking legal help during a difficult time, consider these steps:

1. Contact your state or local bar association for referrals to attorneys who specialize in divorce cases
2. Ask your healthcare provider or therapist for recommendations
3. Look for attorneys who offer free initial consultations to discuss your Show Full Answer

When seeking legal help during a difficult time, consider these steps:

1. Contact your state or local bar association for referrals to attorneys who specialize in divorce cases
2. Ask your healthcare provider or therapist for recommendations
3. Look for attorneys who offer free initial consultations to discuss your situation
4. Check if you qualify for legal aid services in your area, which can provide reduced-cost or free legal help
5. Consider payment plans or sliding scale fees that some attorneys offer based on income Remember that your mental health is important during this challenging time. Working with a therapist or counselor can help you navigate the emotional aspects of divorce while managing your depression. They can also provide documentation that may be helpful in legal proceedings if needed.

Many family counseling services can help improve outcomes during major life transitions. Look for a licensed counselor or therapist who has experience with both depression and family dynamics.

July 13, 2025
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Good ideas thank you โ˜บ๏ธ

July 13, 2025
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Do you attend any local support groups for spouses of addicts like Nar-anon? . . If not, now would be a great time for ya da start, I do believe, and you could go into any Nar-anon or Al-Anon mtg. and ask this question- you'd probably get a shipload of helpful responses from other spouses of addicts or alcoholics who have been there and done that!! . . My best โ˜ฎ๏ธ peace, love, and good vibes da ya, Mmm. . Cool ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿˆ Cat. .

July 13, 2025 (edited)
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July 14, 2025
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Hi, not a good idea at all, Earl, unless there's something nefarious goin' on in the common household on the part of the addict such as drug dealin' . ... . If one and one's kids and/or extended family members are in danger from the addict spouse or partner, then certainly the law should be reported to, though, of course!! ... My best โ˜ฎ๏ธ peace, love, and good vibes . . Cool ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿˆ Cat . .

July 14, 2025

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