I've been struggling with that question for decades, but, and it's about damned time, I'm finally learning to show myself more self-compassion and grace.

In my eyes, you, Vicki, are a smart, pretty, loyal, loving cat Mom, a caregiver who needs emergency tlc, and who is way too hard on herself. Put that in your pipe and smoke it!

Wish we could see ourselves as others see us

I find it hard to see worth in myself. I find worth in others and they tell me I am special and have a big heart, even though I dont believe it. I guess im trying to say is find worth in helping others someday you will see a difference you made in someone's life, by making their day. Then you will know how important you are, it helps me.

For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: but whosoever will lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Lu...

Bible Gateway passage: Luke 9:24 - King James Version

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke.9.24&version=KJV