Who knows ? No one does takes 2 committed people to make any relationship work . Depends upon who is doing the work !

Love can do all things, keeps no records of wrongs, trust all, believe all. They can if they really work at it every second. Them all yourself do you want something that you have to work at every second

I guess anything is possible. I think it's really difficult for anyone with BPD to have a healthy relstionship..it would be a lot of work. But aren't relstionships hard and a lot of work for us all anyways!!.... hopefully she's going to therapy at least.

She's refuses to get diagnosed, but she agrees that she's got 70-80% of the traits of bdp yes

It depends, if the two individuals work at it together,yes maybe, if not the best thing to do is go your separate ways in good terms.