May not be a question for this group but really need some help or enlightenment I have been seeing this guy for a year and a half and it seems like I am waisting my time or is it just the illness making me feel this way. Little background he is the music industry locally hasn't made a big deal of his company yet but anyways I support his dreams but at the same time I feel I come at the bottom of his priority list he has no time for me I have to make the initiative to go see him and when we are together the only time I really have undivided attention is when we are sleeping together other than that is all talk Bout his business or we are being interrupted by ppl. I asked him to marry me and he said he couldn't answer bc he wasn't raised for a woman to ask that question he's suppose to ask me then I asked him to move in with me bc he stays with his mother and she can't stand me for nothing even though I have done nothing to her he said yes the turned around and said he couldn't bc he couldn't leave his artist. Am I being stupid and waisting my time or am I just making it into something its not and just trying to push him away. I forgot to mention until like two weeks ago he didnt even know my real name only my nickname.

Am I Waisting My Time With Him?

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Am I Waisting My Time With Him?

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May not be a question for this group but really need some help or enlightenment I have been seeing this guy for a year and a half and it seems like I am waisting my time or is it just the illness making me feel this way. Little background he is the music industry locally hasn't made a big deal of his company yet but anyways I support his dreams but at the same time I feel I come at the bottom of his priority list he has no time for me I have to make the initiative to go see him and when we are… read more

posted May 19, 2019 (edited)

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You are worth so much more than being something he can use when it's convenient for him! I would, if it was me, leave the relationship immediately. I will never be second best for anyone, especially someone I truly care about. What he feels about you isn't even near what you feel for him and I am hearing far too many red flags about this person. Find someone who will love you and cherish you. Don't ever be second choice in a relationship. Sending you hugs honey.

posted May 19, 2019

Wasting your time.

posted May 28, 2019

@A MyDepressionTeam Member thanks that's so sweet of you to say 💛💙

posted May 21, 2019

You are so welcome Taz. Please never forget how important you are and how much you deserve to be treated with respect and love!

posted May 20, 2019

something i been learning slowly you need be your own top priority guy i sorta seeing he pot me above himself that bother me ask him where you rate priority wise that tell you lot told me

posted May 19, 2019

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