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Are There Any Members On Here Who Feel That They Can Never Do And Say Anything Right Because Their Family And Others Get Upset With Them?!

Are There Any Members On Here Who Feel That They Can Never Do And Say Anything Right Because Their Family And Others Get Upset With Them?!

posted over 3 years ago
A MyDepressionTeam Member said:

Ok this my take on this ..
First of all it depends on how your mindset is. If you're in a negative mood for the day you're going to take everything wrong. You need to think about that first. That is if you can think about it. Depression sucks it'll get you blindsided and you don't think that you're in a negative mood when you really are and you don't realize it. You think your family is getting upset with you and they're not. Or either you're saying things off the wall to them that are very negative and of course they going to get upset with you because you're being negative. And they don't know how to handle it.

That comes back to the other thing they can't handle your depression therefore they're getting upset with you it's not a matter of you saying anything right or not they just don't understand that you're depressed and that's just the way you are at the moment it's not you it's the depression so don't be so hard on yourself.

Then you got those family members that expect things from you they want you to be one way when you're another way well you know what I got to say them tell them to suck your damn toe or tell them to bite it ! And tell them to bite it big! Because you are an individual and you can be whoever you choose to be you don't have to be who they cannot be because that's what they want somebody who they cannot be I hope this makes sense..

Michelle

posted over 3 years ago
A MyDepressionTeam Member said:

Yes. Always trying to please everyone else

posted over 3 years ago
A MyDepressionTeam Member said:

Cindy, I am sending you a hug cause i think you might need one, I kept my head down to many times, fell off the steps, cryed cause i hurt, was told not to cry, get up and be a big girl get over it and yes i had to keep my mouth shut !

posted over 3 years ago
A MyDepressionTeam Member said:

That must really hurt, to have your sister be so mean, have you tried to reach out to her at all ? ?

posted over 3 years ago
A MyDepressionTeam Member said:

I gave up with my family members as they always put me down

posted over 3 years ago
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