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February 20, 2018
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Many community members responded to the question about being blamed for their mental illness with deep recognition, sharing painful... Read more

Many community members responded to the question about being blamed for their mental illness with deep recognition, sharing painful experiences of being told to 'just get over it' by family, friends, and even doctors. Several members described losing friendships, hiding their struggles behind a cheerful mask, and facing ridicule instead of empathy, while others pushed back firmly against the idea that anyone would choose to feel this way. A recurring theme was the need for more public education and awareness around mental illness, with many finding comfort in knowing they were not alone in facing these harmful misconceptions.

A MyDepressionTeam Member

I have been told that I bring everything bad upon myself! I guess in my mo's eyes, others brought good upon me. Duh! I know we do not bring these things upon ourselves. Nobody says when they are growing up that they want to be depressed.

February 28, 2018
A MyDepressionTeam Member

@A MyDepressionTeam Member. G'day thanx 4 the AKA & Huggles re my post on MHI, much appreciated & sending huge Huggles rite bak atcha. We are fortunate 2 hav this forum where we can openly discuss our pesky headspace critters that hav uninvited taken up residence.
Hope ur hav;n a cruisy 1, travel well.
HOOROO & Toodles MOO :)

February 26, 2018
A MyDepressionTeam Member

We need more education on mental illness. If it was as simple as some people think it is to get over, then this site would not exist and there would be no mental illness.

February 22, 2018
A MyDepressionTeam Member

My friend used to say to me that I must like being ill or I would get up and sort my problems out. But due to illness, depression, and chronic fatigue I be lucky to get up some days. And if I did, it would be to use bathroom. After18 yrs of friendship I had to walk away. The hardest thing for me is when my boys used to think I was making it when I would cancel a visit because I was too depressed or ill. I usually put on a mask and cheers others up when they were feeling low. I would hide my problems and come home and sob my heart out. But because I am sensitive to criticism off friends there are occasions where I have not been able to hold my emotions back. There would be no empathy but ridicule. We don't choose to be depressed I wish others could try and understand this instead of sitting in judgement.

February 22, 2018
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Oh, yeah. “Just chill out” “Don’t take everything so seriously.” “There are people in the world that are so much worse off than you. Some people don’t have their legs!” (WTF?!)

February 21, 2018

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