The right guy sees past all that and treats his relationship with you as something special and separate from everything else. He should be able to cope with what he sees and still be with you.

If he can't handle everything about you then he doesn't deserve you. There will be someone who understands and will support you no matter what is going on in the background especially when it's hard. It took me a long time to realize this but you should never let anyone make you feel less than

Do not let this get to you. Obviously your b.f. is a little selfish. If he really loved you, he’d be more understanding. You need to take advantage of this space and wonder if he’s worth it. Sounds a little like low self esteem going on. Good luck

to have a healthy relationship the person has to accept your life the good and bad. as if they were in the same situation you would do it with him. Love means acceptance and being supportive

I think that you will be better off without this boyfriend. If he is judging you based on the actions of others (family or not) then he is trouble.