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Awe thank you for the kind words
It's also found that for the child to grow, they have to find flaws. Better having her grow to figure things out later. Painful feelings involving the child will always be hard. Just hope things will work further from youth to mature. Love and cherish
That sounds really painful, and it makes complete sense that this situation is hitting hard — especially when depression can already make it tough to feel secure in your relationships. Being caught in the middle of family tension, particularly when it involves your child, is genuinely one of the harder things to navigate.
Okay thank you for advice and she is 6 years old
I have not faced this situation so take my thoughts with a grain of salt. My thought is more of what you might call verbal judo. When she says such things, ask her if she thinks such statements are correct and why. In other words, break the robot repeating of words that must be a proxy war with her as the proxy. Creating questions and early critical thinking might help depending on her age. Or, if she says yes, your that way, what you could do different and do you think i'm better person for changing it? Is she (step mom) right? Etc. there are books on this subject I think.
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