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Years ago I went out for a birthday. It was very hot and I was in the back of a van with out any air. I was already feeling sick and I don't like going out and eating in public. I did eat a piece of pizza but I felt so sick. My family kept pressure me to eat more even when I was sick. I got jello and grapes and ate slowly to make them stop. My sister was paying and she has mental problems too and she guilts people a lot. I wish I could know if it's true but we all went out to the car and she… read more

May 16
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Members connected over experiences of guilt-tripping and hurtful behavior from family members, sharing stories that ranged from uncomfortable... Read more

Members connected over experiences of guilt-tripping and hurtful behavior from family members, sharing stories that ranged from uncomfortable birthday outings to conflict at a military funeral. Several members described feeling confused, hurt, or dismissed by siblings and other relatives who seemed more focused on their own emotions than on offering support. A recurring theme was the importance of protecting personal peace, with many encouraging each other to recognize that people who try to guilt others are often hurting themselves, and that choosing your own wellbeing over toxic relationships is a valid and healthy choice.

A MyDepressionTeam Member

Ab-sol-f'ing-lutely!

May 17
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Grandmom always told us, as family-centric as she was, that you can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family. Ain't that the damned truth?

May 17
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Absolutely, you got that right sista!! Keep that chin up great things are about to happen for you!!

May 16
A MyDepressionTeam Member

@A MyDepressionTeam Member It wasn't for me. I would've never gone. Yea she makes snide comments about me to other family members that tell me to upset me so they get along very well together obviously. My nephew is the only reason I deal with her as little as possible.yhank you for the reply.

@A MyDepressionTeam Member I've been trying really hard not to let people who enjoy upset me and ruminating. I'm doing better than wat I was. I think of my peace and realize. People like that are feeling awful about themselves and they act that way because of it.

May 16
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Hi Kaye that situation sounds very uncomfortable and unfortunate and I’m sorry that you were made to feel that way. I hope that you were able to sort out that negativity and flip it into something a little more positive. Happy Saturday to you!!

May 16

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