@A MyDepressionTeam Member, Stacy, my heart goes out to you and anyone else who is trapped by a medication prescribed to alleviate our symptoms, but suffer worse than what it was given to you for.
There's no single "most effective" medication for depression — it really depends on the person. What works well for one person may not work for another, and finding the right fit can take some trial and error with your doctor's guidance.
That said, here's a quick overview of the main types of antidepressants: - SSRIs (like Show Full Answer
@A MyDepressionTeam Member, I also had the GeneSight test done 3 years ago; sadly, we're running out of effective medications in the green column that can be of moderate help for me.
That being said, I agree fully with MDT's answer that there is no medication better suited for depression treatment than any other. After your PCP or behavioral health provider makes a diagnosis, assess your physical conditions and know what medications you may be taking so no harmful interactions occur, they will then make their best decision as to what medication may help you best.
I'm not going to lie, after 40+ years of treatment, there are times when trying one medication, combined with a supporting one, can be a total crapshoot. Sometimes you get just enough relief of your symptoms so you can function as "normally" as you can, sometimes the side effects get the better of you (totally depends on the drug, they can significantly vary), sometimes it feels like you're throwing a brick into the Grand Canyon and making no headway whatsoever. Such is the life-long disorder that is depression.
I don't feel like my head is in the right space right now to wish you the best, but I do recommend discussing all of your concerns with your healthcare provider, possibly getting a referral to a behavioral health specialist and don't go crazy trying harder than you can manage in the moment.
My suggestion is to get a Genesight test to see what medication (genetically) works for your body.