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Hi everyone! Quick question.. what can I do to help myself in staying busy? Really struggling lately with no motivation to do anything.

A MyDepressionTeam Member asked a question 💭
San Bernardino, CA
February 26
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A MyDepressionTeam Member

@A MyDepressionTeam Member, oh do I feel that. Got classified as disabled so I'm basically "retired" and I have more time on my hands than I have things to occupy it. I try not to sit glued to the computer for long periods of time, either get up and do something upstairs or get on the rower. If you can do so safely, I can't recommending getting outside for a good walk highly enough. If weather permits, I'm out once, sometimes even twice a day, depending on how I feel. It's a struggle trying to fill the blanks where work once did and my mind tends to wander to places I'd rather not discuss.

You can only do what you feel you're capable of doing in the moment; expecting more than that can leave you feeling like a failure or inadequate.

February 26
A MyDepressionTeam Member

I’m capable to do my dishes & laundry or all my house chores but I’m like stuck !!??!! What’s keeping me from doing things I know should be done ? I’ve nvr experienced this in so many days in a row !!

February 26
MyDepressionTeam

How can you stay busy when depression has drained your motivation?

It's completely understandable that you're struggling with motivation right now. Depression affects your brain's reward system and energy levels, making even simple tasks feel overwhelming. This isn't laziness—it's a symptom of your condition.

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How can you stay busy when depression has drained your motivation?

It's completely understandable that you're struggling with motivation right now. Depression affects your brain's reward system and energy levels, making even simple tasks feel overwhelming. This isn't laziness—it's a symptom of your condition.

Here are some gentle strategies that might help:

Start incredibly small. Break tasks into tiny steps. Instead of "clean the house," try "load two dishes into the dishwasher." A MyDepressionTeam member shared, "Just think of one thing you have to do for yourself and do it! Take a shower, brush your teeth."

Create a simple routine. Set regular times for basic activities like making your bed or eating. When these become automatic, they require less mental energy and can help you feel more productive.

Focus on "easy wins." Do one manageable task—drink water, play a favorite song, or send a quick text. Celebrating small accomplishments can rebuild confidence and remind your brain that progress is possible.

Find an accountability buddy. Ask someone to check in with you or join you for activities. A MyDepressionTeam member noted, "I find I'm less motivated when it's something by myself. Try finding someone to do it with—it makes it way more fun."

Reward yourself. Research shows that clear rewards can boost motivation in people with depression history. After completing a task, treat yourself to something you enjoy—a favorite show, a snack, or just relaxing.

Build a comfort plan. Before motivation dips further, write down low-energy activities that soothe you—watching calm videos, having tea, or listening to podcasts. Having this list ready can help when you feel stuck.

Remember, any tiny action counts as progress. Be patient with yourself.

February 26

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