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Something that still kinda nags at me happended over a year ago. I had a cyst on my ovary. I was having pain on/off in my side the larger the cyst got. I went to the oncologist and they reassured me repeatedly that it probably wasn't cancer. I wasn't really that worried about it. I know cancer sometimes there aren't signs until the 3rd or 4th stage. I didn't have any other signs.no one in my immediate family had cancer I'm not trying to offend anyone here. I'm sure they do this a lot with… read more

December 3, 2025
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A MyDepressionTeam Member

I could write a book. I don't even know where to start.

December 4, 2025
A MyDepressionTeam Member

I made a appointment with a doctor recently and have gone back on the waiting list after explaining I was let down by those that were meant to help me as there are others not here to get the help they need. The doctor needed someone to say about what they saw but as I have abcence seizures people just think I'm being rude and the amount of family and friends I lost because of it but thankfully I have lots of people that care about me even if they aren't family and those people that were supposed to be friends just proved they didn't really care anyway and I realised which doctors care about patients and which ones only see you as another number walking through the door.

December 11, 2025
MyDepressionTeam

How can healthcare providers better communicate with patients who have anxiety during medical procedures?

It sounds like you went through a really challenging experience, and your feelings are completely valid. When you're dealing with anxiety and depression, medical situations can feel especially overwhelming, and the way Show Full Answer

How can healthcare providers better communicate with patients who have anxiety during medical procedures?

It sounds like you went through a really challenging experience, and your feelings are completely valid. When you're dealing with anxiety and depression, medical situations can feel especially overwhelming, and the way healthcare providers communicate makes a huge difference.

The dismissive "it could be anything" response you got is frustrating because it doesn't acknowledge your specific concerns or validate what you're experiencing. You're absolutely right that a more empathetic approach—like "many patients have that pain, but it could be various things"—would have been more reassuring.

Your emotional response in the recovery room is actually quite normal, especially when dealing with unexpected pain and anxiety. Many people with depression and anxiety find that medical procedures can trigger intense emotional reactions. You weren't being difficult—you were having a genuine response to pain and stress.

The dismissive attitudes from some staff members (like the eye-rolling and complaining in front of you) were unprofessional and likely made your anxiety worse. Healthcare providers sometimes don't realize how much their words and body language affect patients, especially those already managing mental health conditions.

A kind word really does matter, as you experienced with the nurse who took time to reassure you about caring for your cat. That small act of compassion probably helped more than she knew.

If you're still feeling affected by this experience over a year later, it might be worth talking to your mental health provider about it. Processing difficult medical experiences can be important for your overall well-being.

December 3, 2025
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Sending lots of hugs, I’m grateful you have found those that truly care 🥰

December 11, 2025
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Yes I fell out with a doctor as he said I was a unreliable witness to my seizures I was frustrated as people in my family and community weren't helping and then the doctor wanted them as reliable witnesses I understand now what they meant but it cost me removing their care from me out of anger and frustration so now I have no one to help with my seizures just because of bad communication.

December 3, 2025

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