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I’ve noticed that when I go to my visits with my daughter that she is being distant with me how would u take that??? While fighting for her!

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Northern Cambria, PA
July 18, 2025
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A MyDepressionTeam Member

Hi Meghann, my friend, well, no parent and no child is perfect . . Sometimes life can really hurt, and then sooner or later we always die. . Even Jesus and Buddha experienced suffering, and then sooner or later they both died. . Buddha said that all life is suffering, and Jesus said that in order to come into the Kingdom of God you must become like a little child. . My daughter is sometimes distant towards me and that is because she is a unique individual living her own life under her own freedom, and I am then hurt and yet still love her, she being 38 now and yet still my only "child". . I have had to realize that she is her very own person now and not that 6.8 lb. little cute baby girl who came into my and my ex-wife's lives to be welcomed here on Earth and to be taken care of until her adulthood and independence. . Her Mom and I still both very much love her, and we are so proud of who she has become . . My best peace, love, and good vibes da ya, Meghann, and may God richly bless you and your lovely daughter! . . Cool 😎 Cat 🐈😺. .

July 18, 2025 (edited)
MyDepressionTeam

It's understandable to feel concerned when your daughter seems distant during visits. Depression can affect parent-child relationships, but this doesn't mean you're a bad parent. Remember that no parent is perfect, and you can still build a trusting and loving relationship with your child even if there are current Show Full Answer

It's understandable to feel concerned when your daughter seems distant during visits. Depression can affect parent-child relationships, but this doesn't mean you're a bad parent. Remember that no parent is perfect, and you can still build a trusting and loving relationship with your child even if there are current challenges.

If you're unsure about how to handle this situation, consider speaking with a mental health professional. They can help you navigate this difficult time and provide strategies for improving communication with your daughter. Try to avoid isolating yourself during this challenging time. While it may be tempting to withdraw when facing relationship difficulties, maintaining social connections is important for managing depression symptoms. Stay calm and supportive in your interactions, speaking in a gentle and clear voice. Focus on creating positive moments during your visits, even if they feel different right now.

July 18, 2025
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Very well put @Spencermalvin and I need to think about that with my 39 year old daughter.

July 21, 2025
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Same here.

July 21, 2025

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