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Members responded to the question about hurtful things people have said about their depression with deep frustration and solidarity, sharing... Read more

Members responded to the question about hurtful things people have said about their depression with deep frustration and solidarity, sharing dismissive comments like 'cheer up,' 'snap out of it,' 'stop feeling sorry for yourself,' and blaming a lack of faith. Several members pointed out that depression is a medical condition involving brain chemistry, not a choice, and that telling someone to just be happy is like telling someone with heart disease to go jogging. A recurring theme was the pain of being misunderstood by family members, with many cutting off relatives who refused to respect their struggles.