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Members opened up about the surprisingly varied and often debilitating symptoms of depression they never expected, with many sharing that... Read more

Members opened up about the surprisingly varied and often debilitating symptoms of depression they never expected, with many sharing that guilt, especially about not being able to do what they once could, and suicidal ideation were far more common and intense than they anticipated. Several members described physical manifestations including extreme fatigue, brain fog, memory loss, difficulty reading or concentrating, weight changes, chronic pain, and an inability to leave the house or even get out of bed, with many expressing shock at how depression robbed them of social skills, motivation, joy, and the ability to function at work or home. A recurring theme was the profound isolation and numbness many feel, the constant self-blame and feelings of worthlessness, and the powerful relief members found in knowing they are not alone, with some offering hope through medication, therapy, faith, support animals, and the hard-won wisdom that recovery is possible even when the road feels impossibly long.