Bc the same reason it is 4 me. Ur scared of being hurt mayb its been along time since uve been with someone or whatever the reason U dont want just anything out THERE u want that rare gem 💎 or diamond that still needs a good man an has everything to offer. Well I'm looking for that man an Im 57. I have had 2 kids never been married but still waiting on the right one. Only want 2 get married once an if i dont do it right the 1st time it wont b NO more but at my age lol i dont think i got anything 2 worry about. Good luck hun

Because you have been hurt and you are subconsciously keeping a barrier up and not allowing people to get to know the real you. Got to let the pain go, keep your eyes open you have the right to protect yourself but at the same time you have to let it go and give people the chance to get to know who you are

Not too sure, but maybe it is the same as trying to find a bf and get him to stay. I think our depression is more visible than we think.