All this makes me feel like a failure and I've let everyone down. Life has become so difficult. Any suggestions on how to get him to understand what I'm going through?
Oh my goodness I'm so sorry. Have you confronted him on this? Looking at naked women on a "site" or are these women he communicates with. Watching porn is normal...I hope you can get to the bottom of this
Good luck will be thinking of you 💙💛
Me and my husband seperated because I let depression and anxiety ruin my life and run me. After he left my world came crashing down. It's almost 2 years in December and finally we are working on things but still hard cause I feel I need to hide my impulses. But as hard as that is living without him has been harder and if I do slip he just needs to realize I'm not perfect I still have depression and anxiety and nothing will ever change that. No matter how much I changed that I have worked on but still is there and I can't fully control it. When I am around him tho I do pretty good but the real test is wen he moves back in.
I know how you feel when I tell people I know about my depression they tell me I should get over it and put it out my mind. Then I ask them okay you tell me how to do that. Naturally they don't have an answer.
Anytime hun. I am usually on here alot. I have found a whole new group of friends who actually care about me!!!!
Hey so sorry your having to go through this. Have you suggested articles or books he could read. Does he listen and understand when you try to explain it to him? If you are in therapy possibly invite him to a session with you
It's hard for us and frustrating to explain it to someone who is upset we have this, it's not like we asked for this illness
I wish you luck and hope that may help even just a little 💙💛