im not instead i have cut her out .

I cut out one sister and an old friend who now lives in FL (I live in PA). I will no longer tolerate what they were doing. Good riddance.

Glad to hear that. I know it is really hard to do but you deserve peace. Hugs

I have dealt with that stress before and have a daughter also. If your daughter judges or treats you badly because someone told her to,it would be her deficit of character. Not a blow to yours. It hurts but you are done raising her,if she cant be respectful,then she doesn't deserve you. My daughter went through a 5 year phase that ended only after i stood up for myself and after 4 weeks of being ignored,she started to appreciate what she lost. Please don't hurt yourself. You are important but you can't see it...yet. She will value you,when you value you❤