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Glendale, CA

Why is it so easy for people to judge and say I am not suffering from depression and anxiety.. I had this for years where out of the blue I would burst out crying of anger and frustration when shit won’t go right. I left school when I was about to be a junior I didn’t wanted to go to high school because it was in another town different then my small ass town. Anyway right after about a year and half later I was little over 19 years old I started as a provider for my father until he passed away… read more

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First, carrying all of this — the grief, the judgment, the financial barriers, the job rejections — is genuinely exhausting. The frustration and pain coming through are completely valid, and those crying spells make total sense given everything being carried.

People who haven't lived with depression often don't understand Show Full Answer

First, carrying all of this — the grief, the judgment, the financial barriers, the job rejections — is genuinely exhausting. The frustration and pain coming through are completely valid, and those crying spells make total sense given everything being carried.

People who haven't lived with depression often don't understand that it isn't just "feeling sad." It shows up as:

- Sudden crying spells, sometimes without an obvious trigger
- Anger and frustration that feels overwhelming
- Difficulty being around people
- Feeling like things will never go right

The stigma around depression is real and unfair. Others calling someone "crazy" often comes from ignorance, not truth. On the cost barrier — it's one of the most common reasons people don't get help, and it's a genuine systemic problem, not a personal failure. Some options worth exploring:

- Community mental health centers often use sliding scale fees based on income
- SAMHSA's helpline (1-800-662-4357) is free and can connect to local low-cost resources
- Open Path Collective offers therapy sessions between $30–$80

Losing a parent while already struggling, then facing judgment on top of it — that's a heavy load. Getting support isn't about being "crazy," it's about getting what's deserved after years of fighting alone. 💙

2 days ago

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