This all started on Monday (it's now friday). I had previously asked him 2 weeks prior, please dont look up porn on the laptop as his son and tutor use it often. He said he wouldnt. Monday I used it for work, and find all these wonderful sites he had visited. We are also in the process of becoming foster parents, and I warned him, that is a no no for that. I called him out after getting a call from our FC agency that after… read more
Seems like a toxic situation to bring a foster child into?
I say head for the hills he is addicted to porn and if he dosnt even acknowledge it he is no where towards quitting . Wen thru the same exact thing for 20 years I put up w it hoping it wud change . My self image was beyond self hate as I had 2 mastectomy’s and he wud not touch me . After my reconstruction surgery no contact again , he used porn in place of our intimacy for 20 years . It was excruciating . Just like any addict he won’t change till he admits he has a problem and most likely not even after that . Don’t make the same mistake I did accepting apology’s and promises . They don’t change and you enable . I wish you the very best but porn is as destructive as any other addiction . Here for you Cathy
I used to do homestudies for foster parents. I just wondered why they would look at your history. But it has been several years since i done them. I also done them in mississippi where very few people who becamenfoater parents had computers and still used house phones and flip phones.
As long as our internet history is clear.....we are all good I guess!!