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Got A Question For The Laidies Mainly Or Those Men That Have Parnters That Have Been Or Experiencing It
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June last year i had to get some of my cervix removed due to cin3 precancerous cells,i have suffered 2 miscarriages after having this done? In a pretty short time, i have a 3 year old little girl who is my absolute world. But i just want to no if any one has been through this and been able to have another child as im at my wits end and worried incase this is is it maybe i cant have any children any more.and it just adds more guilt because i aborted my child at 9weeks after i had my 1st i was… read more

posted January 20, 2020
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A MyDepressionTeam Member

Maybe you became pregnant too soon after the surgery and your cervix wasn't fully healed. I also had two miscarriages after a cervical biopsy. I was starting to think I would never have a child, and being a mother was the only thing I wanted in life. When I got pregnant the third time my ob/gyn tied a stitch around the bottom of my cervix, just like you'd tie a balloon after you filled it with air. I had no problems with that pregnancy and had a beautiful little girl. Three years later I was pregnant again and this time he didn't bother putting the tie around my cervix. I had an easy pregnancy and had another little girl. They are 40 and 36 now and have children of their own. Just keep hoping and trying - the body will respond when everything is working properly. I hope you will be able to get rid of the guilt you feel - you have nothing to be guilty about. You are not being punished somehow for the abortion - you did what you knew was best for yourself at the time. I, too, had an abortion - in high school - and I was believing that I was being punished for it and would never get pregnant. I had to learn to stop believing that. And now, here I am with two beautiful daughters and five incredible grandchildren! I am hoping for you that you have the same in the future.

posted January 20, 2020
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Give it time. Take a moment and breath. Everything will be okay

posted January 20, 2020
A MyDepressionTeam Member

Be greatful for the life that you will be able to raise. And you can adopt

posted January 20, 2020
A MyDepressionTeam Member

I’ve had multiple surgery’s done there but still had a healthy baby boy at age 42 . Also had breast cancer 5 years before my son was born . Becuz of chemo my drs said I cud never get pregnant . Don’t trust wat others say go w ur heart .

posted January 20, 2020
A MyDepressionTeam Member

It will be emotional, it could take years to recover. And even then you will find yourself thinking about it. You are definitely not alone. Support is the great thing to have.

posted January 20, 2020

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