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Why Do I Continue To Mess Up My Relationships?

Why Do I Continue To Mess Up My Relationships?

I am in the first relationship since the passing of my husband. I feel angry All of the time. He can't do anything right, feel insecure, very very angry. I've always had trouble with all of my relationships, I could have sworn I was ok and could be in a relationship. Why can't I have a normal relationship?

A MyDepressionTeam Member said:

I do need to work on a more positive way of thinking about myself. Thank you 😊

posted over 1 year ago
A MyDepressionTeam Member said:

Omg I do the same. Self doubt that I'm not good enough . Good luck my friend

posted over 1 year ago
A MyDepressionTeam Member said:

I struggle with this question I have had 2 10yr relationships no marriage and ask myself what's wrong me and in between the first and 2 I waited 7yrs and it still didn't work I'm ok with being by myself but I do like companionship I no that I get frustrated really easy when there is a disagreement or the other person does something that is not acceptable I'm also an enabler so that makes me a target to get used and it makes me fall deeper into my depression I'm hoping I just want some happiness for once

posted 6 months ago
A MyDepressionTeam Member said:

I was like that 6 years ago when i lost my husband, it takes time to grieve and we all do it in different ways, but do not lose hope

posted 7 months ago
A MyDepressionTeam Member said:

Hi I've been married almost 14 years now, each day is a struggle. He works a lot right now and when I'm feeling better I go out. It's good to get out, sitting in the house craying for no reason is useless. I have done it several times sat and cried alone, it's not fun. Off track here hubby came home the other night and said can't I do anything right? I just looked at him and didn't know what to say, I'm very piticular about doing things. With me having disc surgery and not being able to do the house work he's had to. It's been driving me crazy, I'm not a clutter bug, plus we live on dirt roads I hate the mess!! It's hard to keep up the older I get, but I'm still doing it. Most men don't know what a woman wants out of a husband, plus he's hardly here, so I ask him why bother being married?? And I ask myself the same question. Good luck to you!

posted over 1 year ago
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