I am asking your advice regarding depression/anxiety in regards to coping with a long distance relationship.
Here is my background:
A month ago my longtime partner and I learned that he has to move to Cape Town (+- 1500 km away from me) at the end of this month. The move is permanent (at this point in time).
I only started my new job about two months ago and I am still on my probation period. I have the liberty of asking my boss to send me to Cape Town if there is as position available. Iā¦ read more
My longest long distance was 7 years. Cross border. Me in canada. I would agree with Anne and take the chance to move with him. Even tho it is possible to maintain long distance, It's hard. Harder with Anxiety and ultimately my anxiety is what ended my relationship with that person because distance. Everyone is different but honestly honey give it a shot and move with him :)
I would personally take a chance and move with him ,I'm sure you're find another Job ,happiness and support is paramount,when you suffer with anxiety and depression xxxsending you big hugs š¤
I am currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend and my depression and anxiety play hell on me and I'm always overthinking things when I don't hear from him. He works 3rd shift and I work a days at Walmart, I'm able to out in for a transfer to the Walmart in the city my boyfriend lives, but at the moment I can't afford to move and no transportation. We try to talk every day but sometimes it's hard and that's when I start to feel overwhelmed and start thinking negative. We do the best we can in our situation and he knows it's not easy for me, I have my dog for the emotional support I need when my boyfriend isnt hear and it has helped some with my depression and anxiety.