@A MyDepressionTeam Member I don't have a family member right now but I have in the past. If you get in touch with the American Cancer Society www.cancer.org they have a hotline you can call to talk to someone who understands cancer. The number is 800-227-2345. They can help you the best. I can give you advice as well. Do you know where the cancer is? What stage cancer do they have? The stage is very important. I will be back here in awhile....see what you can learn at the 800 #. Good luck.