I do this to avoid confrontation with my Xhusband. We have a child together ( 55yrs old and mentally challenged ). He has an explosive temper and have a really hard time dealing with him. I am sole support and he does little to nothing to help. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Do you wanna hear my blunt answer? Because youāre weak
OH!! I watched the movie called, āthe earthing movieā, and in it they talk about a school with students who have challenges. The school has put in, groundingā, rooms..( not punishment grounding, but grounding from electricity) and they say it has helped the kids immensely. It may be worth a look into it to help your son, ( and you). I tried it and the benefits are quite profound!
I highly recommend this movie to everyone!
Boundaries. I do the same all the time! Iām not good at setting boundaries but when I think about it, itās easier to just say yes when I want to say no! Frustrating! Itās easier to put everyone and everything else first. I always think itās because if I get their things done first then Iāll have time for my things, but there are always more, āthingsā, that I have to do for someone else and I rarely get to my own stuff.
I need to learn to set boundaries and keep them in place!