Love and hugs and prayers and kisses for all of us🙏🌹♥️🥰😇😘

I'd advice you to check out
Lisa A Romano on YouTube
Narcissist v Emphat
It will give you some expert guidance ❤️

I was the same way with my eldest she turned out good and slept once in kids playhouse outside in cold cause she was late and I wouldn't let her in. For some reason being single and feeling completely broken seems to have changed me. She doesn't have keys cause I told her get a job and you'll need keys to get in her response was well find me one.. she has some mental issues ADHD to highest spectrum between she lived with her dad he took her off meds and such and this is how I got her back completely disrespectful and nasty.. even calls her sisters says their no kin to her cause they have different dad.. I'm truly at a loss ..I just want to move me and my 17 yr old son to a two bedroom and let this landlord throw her out as I cant seem to get a break enough from her to build my self up to deal with her...

This sounds harsh but change your locks. Give her the rules. Tell her any threats will be taken seriously and you will call the police. It must be hard dealing with her and your health issues. It sounds harsh calling the police on your own kid..but once she figures out you are serious i think she wont want to stay. Also its protection for you. If she ever really follow through with her threats..you will have police reports for them. I was a single mom. I was sick also and i explained to my kids that i cannot just have them coming and going all hours of the day and night and laying around. My oldest son came home one night after curfew and he slept in a lawn chair outside the door cause i would not let him in. After that he either made it home on time or he called me if he was stuck somewhere and was gonna be a little late or he just stayed with friends. I didnt have to deal with drug issues but i did tell my kids if i found drugs in my house or they were under the influence..they were automatically out for good.

She threatens to thrash my house if I try to kick her out and all sorts and with me just finding out I have lung cancer ( still be investigated) I dont need it shes mean and tbh I'm a bit scared of her. I have 5 and all or out except my 17 yr old son whose in college.. none of her sisters will have her except the one who has drug problems shell have her cause she to thinks I'm a crap mom so they agree on that.. I'm at a loss.. I just want her gone..