Even if a break up happens on good terms, grieving still has to take place for the loss of the relationship. I'd say what you are going through is normal.

Oh i feel you on feeling used and stupid. Do you work or go to school? Those are usually places to meet other people.

Hey S1 affairs of the heart are touchy things. Its been my experience that you never really get over a broken heart. You learn to live with it. Wish l could be more positive for you but thats unfortunatly my expeience speaking. Your just going to have to give it time to heal. No matter how amicable your split was your still going to suffer a broken heart and that means going through the grieving process. I dont know if that was any help but feel better my friend...

S1 this is taoist philosophy" for each begining there is an ending but for each ending there is a new begining". In time youll adapt... Just hold on to hope!

Who long were you two together S1?..it is seid that because of the different brain wiring when it comes to the female brain compared to the male brain ..the female will feel the pain of brake ups deeper then the male but the male will feel the pain longer.