I was diagnosed with major depression in 2011 went thru all the meds and counseling, lost everything, wife now in nursing home stroke, been off meds 3and half years, still isolate myself, not as much as beginning, only thing that gets me out really is job, I do pretty good most days just can't get rid of the guilt I feel for letting my wife down and family. I feel that if I had done more none of this would have happened , I have a real hard time seeing my wife because I feel so guilty for what… read more
Be kind to yourself. What would you say to a friend who approached you with the same feelings that you have? I’m guessing you would be kind to him. Think now you would treat him. If you can be… read more
How do you cope with guilt /guilty feelings?
Guilt can be a powerful factor in our lives, and one that is needlessly exacerbated by certain moral theologies. We may be conditioned from a young age to carry guilt because of our shortcomings in a… read more
I have always felt so much guilt for being depressed. Logically I know I'm not well but I still feel guilt. I think about all the people in the world who are truly suffering from horrible circumstances and in many different ways. My guilt prevents me from allowing myself to just feel who I really am. Does anyone else experience this guilt?
Hello Jainey,I To Have Bipolar/Manic Depression And It Is A Real Disease,And A Very Tiresend One At That,I Agree Education Is Key,Sending Hugs And Prayers!
For example: Someone I know is having a real bad day. I mean horrible. I'm having a bad day, but in comparison it's nothing. I feel a little miffed that I'm not being listened to. Or taken seriously. Then afterwards I feel very guilty that I felt that way and should have not even brought up my stupid problems. Then I feel even worse. I hate myself and cry all day and feel this unrelenting guilt. I feel like I'm going to lose this friend and that's the last thing I want.
@A MyDepressionTeam Member, it sounds like you may have some family members who are possibly affected by narcissistic behavior or borderline personality disorder if you are getting blamed for things… read more
I really struggle with this and feel guilty and worthless sometimes and my life feels pointless.
Ya I feel like I’m less then
Maybe. Consult a book or google or doctor in that field that will take you seriously
For myself im already an emotional person, my depression doesnt help matters at all. Could possibly be same for… read more
All I can think of IS suicide and how bad I want to do it
I felt that way @ the Beginning of Mental Meltdown & started Cutting, I was sick in between wanting to Live & wanting to Die all @ the same time & I was getting so Frustrated 🥴. So I feel you on this… read more
feeling invalidated, i thought she understood that depression is an illness. please tell me how you all recover from something so harsh. i feel pathetic now, not ill will depression. i want to withdraw completely because my heart is broken
To other people it may seem we are playing the 'poor me' card. But you know how you feel. A lot of us isolate because of depression. I did it for so many years I lost most of my friends. The one whi… read more
Can anyone relate? In my case it involved my obsession for money and spending to made my happy. In desperation I did something I regret with every piece of my heart. I'm so embarrassed and shamed. The guilt is killing me.
Dear Kelly..it is true we can't change the past. Nothing we can do about it. If you never disclose, you will always feel guilty an ashamed And sometimes when we disclose, there is a time period for… read more
Is it normal to feel numb while depressed? Like, Your emotions are dull?
No, being numb is not the same as being heartless, not at all. Sometimes, we shut down for any number of reasons, and it is self-protective, or a defense against being overwhelmed. Perhaps look at… read more