Last year I've spent living in an environment where I'd do all the chores w/o being asked for it (mother raised me to do them whenever I see something needs doing lmao), w/o ever having my work acknowledged but rather having it nullified (whenever mother has a bad day she shouts about having to do everything on her own all the time, how no one helps her... cause my younger siblings and their live-in partners don't move a finger lmao), and anyone who has a spare minute snaps at me when I so much… read more
No it"s not selfish. You have to try to yake care of yours.
Not selfish I call it self preservation
Not selfish at all