So recently, my uncle died, quite suddenly from cancer, we had all had a family feud with him for years, basically he blamed the family for his wife walking out.. anyway. As you know, my dad abused me and wasn’t a part of my life after 14. My uncle was one of the only male role models I had, in the end, my mother and sister made up with him, I, couldn’t face him, I did my bit by helping with his children, with support, childcare and financially. When he died I went in the room to say goodbye, I… read more
Not making this about me, I had similar problem. Last lady time I saw brother he chased me out of moms house.
Our last phone call he called me an F-in bitch
All we can do is help kids, especially my niece.
Exactly a month later our mother died , .my sister screwed me , her husband attacked me .
You have do much on your plate, please take care