Wise words Kathleen...once u have been hurt so bad and lost trust w/in urself u must be patient with urself...my husband has been living with who once was my best friend..i was betrayed by two of the ppl that I Ald have thought was the last ppl that wld hurt me...but it is happening. I handle it someway that I can't fully explain but I know I am much bettr than them and I don't need a man like him n my world...

I know exactly how you feel. I don't know of a magic answer to make those feelings stop. For me, it took a long time for me to fully trust a guy. Once you see him have those other options and opportunities, yet he doesn't take them, perhaps you'll be able to believe in him. It's hard to feel that way, I know. Be patient with yourself.