i have been trying to get prego for over the past few months and nothing i have tried seems to be helping. I struggle with having pcos and i know they told me my chances would be high of ever having a child. but i got prego back in November 2016 and lost the baby in december/..... is there anyone on here that can point me in some type of direction that could possibly help me out.? i would really appreciate it. Thanks
My Condolences to your angel in heaven hun, i have some idea of what its like. After a miscarriage the body usually takes about 4 months or so to fully sort itself out, however everyone is different. i suggest going to a specialist, or a gynecologist to talk about your cycles, ovulation etc so you can have a better understanding of whether this is a physical block, or a mental one. If you are on certain medications, they can lower your chances of getting pregnant.
Even if it turns out your body is completely physically healthy and in working order (despite the pcos obviously); your mind/mental state/subconscious can GREATLY affect certain processes of the body. Knowing which of these is blocking, or just not helping with the process of trying for a baby will really help in the next steps forward.
Also a GREAT idea to get your partner to get a sperm count done :) because that actually might be the issue, and nothing to do with your body at all.
all the best x
I'm sorry that you are struggling in this area of life. I can only imagine your frustration and pain. All i can suggest is prayer and the best, healthiest lifestyle that you can live. Stress does terrible damage to a body. Forgive yourself of past negative experiences. And maybe volunteer to help unwed mothers and those struggling with post-partum depression when you are ready. You can always surround yourself with children and not have one of your own. It may help with your past grief of losing your unborn child and allow yourself to heal. I hope you find some peace. TC.