Im having a moment where I once again realized just how much shit from my past is still affecting me. my father, my childhood, my cheating ex. I feel wrong for still being traumatized by all of that somewhere deep down, I feel too messed up to ever be deserving of anyone's love, I feel to messed up to ever be fixed. Im wondering what the hell it is my boyfriend sees in me. Im wondering if he'd change his mind if I told him about those experiences. Im scared, I feel too broken to ever be fixed… read more
It's only recently that I've remembered and realised things about my past and having spoken to an older family member having these things confirmed as true
Yes all the time my ex died having infected me with hiv. My child hood was abusive with a lot of violence . I have been raped and have tried to kill my self. I have been used taken advantage off and made to feel worthless. Being gay I have been made to feel like a second class citizen and dirty. I am not a victim I struggle everyday but some days can be great. I will not give in
I have felt the same you just have to remember that you are here for a reason &, it's OK to feel alone & in pan. Your boyfriend is there for you & I will be there for you anytime to hug you. X
I understand how you feel. I haven't let go of my past. Both of my parents abused me as a child and my sisters too because they were both mentally ill. I can't let go of the past and I feel angry and sad. I cannot forgive because it's hard. I've been in therapy for three years and I meditate but the pain doesn't go away. I live on my own but my life isn't really going anywhere and I am uncertain about my future. Just wanted to say that you are not alone.
Hi kriss, do you go to church? I think most pastors counsel for free. You need support from family, friends, pastor etc