The abuser was 14 to 15, still an adolescent, but knew right from wrong. victim was 7 years younger, with emotional trauma already existing and evident to others. Does the age of both make any difference or make it less wrong. Can't fully process it for due to the age for whatever reason and asking for opinions to forgive and move on.
I just want to let you know I had found my abuser on Facebook and messaged an incrypted message prior to asking my question. It was something to the effect of " do you remember my family that lived in… read more
How should you feel
My dad was the most caring person I knew, always made the teas, cleaned, spent time with us made us a treehouse, worked hard he was my hero! We had a close relationship and I was his princess... until I turned 13 and realised, what he was doing wasn’t right. I wrote a letter and they took me from school to tell them in person. That was the last time I ever saw him in our home. My mum was devastated. When a woman is raped it’s an evil thing and hard to survive but atleast… read more
do you know, it is so un christian to tell someone to get on with it and love jesus when they are hurting because its not as bad as jesus went through... you are a very unsensitive person. you should… read more
I lost my son and survived human trafficking and sexual child abuse ..I have no one but my service animal and my youngest in rehab
That's not 'out of nowhere'. You've been through hell. Please see a good mental health professional. You need and deserve help to process what you've been through.
i have talking about feeling like i was molested by a doctor as a child. its been over 20 years and i know theres nothing that can be done but im having flashbacks and i hate it. ive never told anyone else except for the people on here and i deleted the question because i felt i should. i know i need help and i am writing to a psychologist i trust. i am terrified honestly. i should have spoke up sooner but i was scared. i thought thats it was normal cause it was a doctor
has anyone else spent… read more
I was molested by my father. I don't remember it, exactly but in the past had flashbacks any time I was intimate with partners and terrible nightmares that led to insomnia because I was afraid to keep… read more
I'm considering more intensive treatment for my mental health issues and just wondering what it could be like as an experience. Any idea would be appreciated if you have an experience to share
Yes I know the feeling my sexual abuse seems to haunt me to the soul.I haven't yet found a good man for myself.They are physically abusive or emotionally abusive.I want to just throw my hands up and… read more
Thanks Amber have you experienced it yourself? I've detached from my childhood abuser well the main one at least...and I've written off other family members who haven't been good for me, as best I… read more
Do you think there is a correlation between having depression or bipolar disorder and being abused? Has anyone felt like they areistreated, looked down on, even harassed in their places of work? Is this normal? Do we open ourselves up to it or do people take advantage of our disorders?
I just found these postings now.... this is one of my main problems... I have an Extreme Work Ethic, an Amazing Attention to Detail, and I'm Honest/Loyal... in the department that I work IE… read more
Try 'the shack'. The authors' experiences in his own life are perhaps equivalent to yours, but the book is fictional, but algorithm to his life
So, amongst other things, a big part of what still affects me and my depression today is the fact that I was abused as a kid. I have never told any member of my family since it was one of my brothers who did it. Even though it was a long time ago, I still have some nightmares and random thoughts about it during the day, especially now that I became sexually active, sometimes it is just so hard to get that memory out of my head. I don't know whether I should tell my family or not because it's… read more
It is hard to deal with I have had multiple family members over my life time and you shouldn't have to suffer alone. Therapy helps some .
Has anyone had depression over extreme child abuse when younger that has affected them into adult hood (c PTSD) and now double slaps one causing anxiety. That's me... I hate my life.
Thank you so much!